“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones”
Pleasant words are rare in this
day of rudeness and sarcasm.
Our culture views being abrupt and
impolite as intelligent and self-assured, when in truth it is the opposite.
Rudeness is usually a defense mechanism used by those who cannot intellectually
defend their position.
Like children at recess, an
argument seldom remains about the topic and usually morphs into an attempt to
build yourself up by tearing down your opponent.
What if we refused to do that?
What if we believed this proverb and set out to build others up with our words?
I want to challenge you to speak
three compliments at work, and three with friends and family today. Put some thought into what you are saying and
make them accurate and meaningful. Not just superficial statements but
appreciative encouragements tailored to the person receiving them.
Don’t tell anyone what you are
doing and watch the impact these words have on others. My hope is you will see the healing power of
this and decide it is a habit worth intentionally continuing.
The world is full of people
willing to reprimand and correct, but there is a shortage in the “building up”
department. Fill that vacancy today and watch the truth of this proverb be demonstrated
in those around you.
“It is in your power to increase the world's
happiness by giving a few words of sincere appreciation to someone who is
lonely or discouraged. Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say
today, but the recipient may cherish them for a lifetime.”
- Dale Carnegie
- Dale Carnegie
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