"But let your statement 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and 'No,' 'No.' Anything more than these comes from evil."
Jesus is discussing the use of vows, and swearing on objects to guarantee the validity of a statement or promise. He clearly says not to do it.
The point is it shouldn't be necessary. If you say yes, it should mean yes... and no should mean no. Elaborate declarations should not be required to assure people you are being truthful.
There should be no need for you to promise, or swear, or take a vow...if it comes out of your mouth it should be the truth, and everyone should know it.
God holds truth in much higher esteem then our society does.
We use words like slick, smooth, or polished as compliments for those who can twist the truth. While fib, white lies, and exaggeration are words used to gloss over what is in fact untruthfulness.
God is clear on this issue because He knows there is nothing more devastating than a lie. There is no doubt that many relationships have been wounded by the speaking of a hard truth. But a lie destroys the relationship, and the tools needed to repair it. If words cannot be believed how can they bring healing?
The truth cuts clean, and heals quickly. But a lie rips and tears, and heals slowly... and always leaves a scar.
Live in such a way that no one questions your word...Be a man of integrity and provide a firm foundation for strong, secure relationships. At times it may be painful, but it gives hope for the future because it preserves trust.
You must decide that truth is always your only option... that is the non-negotiable price of integrity.
"If you have integrity, nothing else matters. If you don't have integrity, nothing else matters."
- Harvey Mackay
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